I train family mediators, solicitors, barristers, judges, social workers, CAFCASS and the police on the subject of narcissism.

"Bravo for your brilliant presentation on Narcissistic Personality Disorder at the Resolution National Conference 2021. Such an important topic, and something that all family law professionals need to understand. Well done for raising awareness of issues in these difficult cases..."

"Just wanted to say how fantastic yours and Karin’s presentation was today. For me personally, your session was the highlight of the conference..."

"Fantastic session - best so far this week..."

"Totally brilliant..."

"Enlightening..."

"I am knocked for six by the excellence of your presentation to Resolution today..."

"Very informative whistle stop of NPD and how to spot it and deal with it..."

"Incredible session - absolutely spot on..."

"Really informative talk dealing with narcissism and family law. I got a lot of useful tips to take on in terms of how dealing with cases going forward..."

"Fascinating..."

"Hugely helpful..."

"Such an interesting talk..."

After July 2021's sell out session, and for 2 hours of accredited CPD, MBL seminars will be hosting our Learn Live virtual classroom webinar once again in October 2021, December 2021 and March 2022. Click here to book.

"Thank you so much for the seminar, it was great...we had 241 people attend -  fantastic numbers!"

"Excellent presentation."

"Such an informative and eye-opening talk..."

January 2022

 "Fascinating and incredibly insightful..."



"Incredibly informative session..."

"Fascinating webinar

discussing dealing with a narcissistic personality within the mediation process..."

Pleased to have been the keynote speaker at Devon County Council's annual SaFest, speaking to 366 social workers, CAFCASS and Police about how to recognise NPD and the ramifications of it for children and adolescents. 

“5 stars"

Unsure as to whether you are representing a narcissistic client? Or might you have represented one in the past without realising it? Have a look at my 30 point checklist here to help you decide.

If you are a family lawyer struggling with a difficult narcissistic individual, either on the other side, or as your own client, help is at hand. Please see our books (written with Karin Walker,  UK family lawyer, for details). To read a sample chapter of 'Narcissism and Family Law - a Practitioner's Guide', click here.

For practical help decoding a narcissistic individual's communications, please do get in touch.

If you have a client going through a divorce with a narcissist who you feel could benefit from support, coaching or mentoring please do get in touch with me, or if you'd prefer, do refer them directly to me.  The narcissistic spouse will usually ramp up their abuse tactics during separation and divorce, and I aim to give specific strategies to help the client to gain control of the situation, both emotionally and practically. In particular, a narcissistic individual will weaponise both the legal system and their own children against the spouse, and rack up tens of thousand of pounds in unnecessary legal bills, due to frustrating delays, goalpost shifting, and poor choice of out of court resolution options. This is money that can be preserved by your client for the marital pot, saving them money, and you your sanity and professionalism.

Our Podcast series, 'Narcissists in divorce - the lure the loss and the law' is aimed both at family lawyers and the general public. Here is a taster episode, below:

Read our 5 star book review in the Law Gazette here

Read our book review in Today's Family Lawyer here.